As mentioned in yesterdays blog on the word, NICE, the roots of that word are far from being nice!
The archaic French word for nice meant, foolish, or stupid, senseless, and the Latin word which
nice has come from is Nescius, meaning ignorant, unaware,literally "not knowing", is that a
description that you would like to be associated with, if you were seen as nice? How have we become
to now think that we can use this word nice, and imagine that all nice people are seen as good and
friendly? When the real meaning is that they are all stupid, ignorant,and not knowing!
The word "people pleaser" seems to fit very snugly with the term "nice person". both seem to go
hand in hand,and behind the mask of the people pleaser, lies seething resentment, and negativity.
Look at what "I" do for YOU! They bellow! And are you grateful, not one bit, don't know why "I"
bother! Ever heard that refrain dear reader of this blog.This word nice conjures up to my mind
clinging,clawing, sickly false sentimental bullshit, dressed up as an "offer you cannot refuse"!
I would sooner have ONE real FRIEND, than a thousand "nice" ones, real friends tell you how
it is,nice friends tell you how they would like it to be. Many years ago when I was desperately
ill, and only given three months too live, it was real folks who saved my life, those that told me
Michael, you either better shape up real fast, or be shipped out in a coffin!, A nice person would
have offered me a cup of tea, and said something like, there there, don't worry, drink your tea!
Real people are aligned with life, and life affirming principles, whilst, nice people are aligned
with a pseudo, sham, facade, dressed up as a loving caring person, and are not life affirming.
rather they are life denying,(albeit ignorantly unknown to their consciousness).
Nice people see obligations that do not exist in reality, and then struggle to meet these false
assumptions and obligations, and in so doing are filled with resentment and self pity.
If we all can open our minds and hearts, embrace the realness of life, and let go of the clinging
bullshit filled false obligations and assumptions that go with it, stop pleasing others at the cost
of us getting resentful and self pitying, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG in DOING
SOMETHING kind and thoughtful for another soul, as long as we are doing it, without expecting
something BACK!!!! I am not a nice person, never have been one, I am a real person though, and all
my friends are real also, otherwise they would not be my friend.
Warmest regards Michael.
kirkpatrickmichael17@gmail.com any feedback welcomed Facebook Soul Realization.
The archaic French word for nice meant, foolish, or stupid, senseless, and the Latin word which
nice has come from is Nescius, meaning ignorant, unaware,literally "not knowing", is that a
description that you would like to be associated with, if you were seen as nice? How have we become
to now think that we can use this word nice, and imagine that all nice people are seen as good and
friendly? When the real meaning is that they are all stupid, ignorant,and not knowing!
The word "people pleaser" seems to fit very snugly with the term "nice person". both seem to go
hand in hand,and behind the mask of the people pleaser, lies seething resentment, and negativity.
Look at what "I" do for YOU! They bellow! And are you grateful, not one bit, don't know why "I"
bother! Ever heard that refrain dear reader of this blog.This word nice conjures up to my mind
clinging,clawing, sickly false sentimental bullshit, dressed up as an "offer you cannot refuse"!
I would sooner have ONE real FRIEND, than a thousand "nice" ones, real friends tell you how
it is,nice friends tell you how they would like it to be. Many years ago when I was desperately
ill, and only given three months too live, it was real folks who saved my life, those that told me
Michael, you either better shape up real fast, or be shipped out in a coffin!, A nice person would
have offered me a cup of tea, and said something like, there there, don't worry, drink your tea!
Real people are aligned with life, and life affirming principles, whilst, nice people are aligned
with a pseudo, sham, facade, dressed up as a loving caring person, and are not life affirming.
rather they are life denying,(albeit ignorantly unknown to their consciousness).
Nice people see obligations that do not exist in reality, and then struggle to meet these false
assumptions and obligations, and in so doing are filled with resentment and self pity.
If we all can open our minds and hearts, embrace the realness of life, and let go of the clinging
bullshit filled false obligations and assumptions that go with it, stop pleasing others at the cost
of us getting resentful and self pitying, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG in DOING
SOMETHING kind and thoughtful for another soul, as long as we are doing it, without expecting
something BACK!!!! I am not a nice person, never have been one, I am a real person though, and all
my friends are real also, otherwise they would not be my friend.
Warmest regards Michael.
kirkpatrickmichael17@gmail.com any feedback welcomed Facebook Soul Realization.
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