inclusiveness is the nature of the soul,exclusiveness is the nature of the EGO.

We are spirit (intelligent energy) with a physical body, and not a body with a spirit ,there  is a big difference here ,spirit  is the primal matrix ,the  physical body is secondary and is actually just a vehicle  for the soul to express itself in this dense physical plane, at death the vehicle is exited and the soul (the REAL you) moves on to other adventures.
We need to look within to find our true self and awaken and expand our consciousness ,where  we become more insightful and sensitive to higher energies.
Meditation and Yoga are excellent ways to do this, I have been in regular meditation for the past forty years and have made modest inroads into cosmic consciousness and soul awareness.
We each have a Divine monitor within us it is usually called the conscience or higher self, this is the still small voice that whispers to us at certain times when we need help.
tbc
regards Michael.